raised, educated, reared, refined, cultured, produced, cultivated, bought up.
She was too well bred
for that, and had too much regard for the social order.
All the same I prefer the West Indian legend, for I don't want any of my civilized friends to know that I am Ishmael Hearne, born and bred
in a tent.
There you may get the best, there being no court I know of that forms more well- bred,
and agreeable people.