niceness, formality, genteelness, courteousness, grace, gentility, pleasantry, politesse, gesture, chivalry, tact, propriety, attention, gallantry, amenity.
courtesy (part of speech: noun)
elegance (part of speech: noun)
I came with my daughters just to pay a customary call of civility,
and I expected, at all events, to be treated like a lady, by a lady, whom I expected to meet here; but I now find out I am mistaken.
- "Caught in a Trap", John C. Hutcheson.
and respect which we found at every place, it is ungrateful to omit, and tedious to repeat.
- "A Journey to the Western Isles of Scotland", Samuel Johnson.
They had always tried to treat each other with civility,
but now there was something in Randolph's way of talking and acting that Rodney did not like.
- "Rodney The Partisan", Harry Castlemon.